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Understanding ABUSE
deception-it hurts

DeCePtIoN

Aaahhh Sssooo Innnocccennnt…
Sssooo sssweeet…
Juuussst the Perrrfffect Pppreyyy…
Commme, Yyyesss…
Iii wwwonnn't Biiittteee!
Ssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss


What is deception?
Deception is an act and deceit to the habit of the mind. It is a skill and addiction in a predator to lure the victim for his/her personal gain. Worse, it does not always imply aim and intention.

Rape

A ruthless and vile act
With such force, causing
Severe pain physically
As I ached emotionally, mentally
My heart pierced by daggers

acquaintance rape - destroys trust


What is deflowering?

It is the act of destroying the innocence or taking away the virginity of a woman.

Acquaintance Rape.
Eighty four percent of all rape victims knew their attacker at least casually. Sixty percent of all rapes take place in the woman's home. Eighty two percent of the victim's life has permanently changed.
A rapist seeks power and control or is desperate of losing control. Most of the time, the rapist enjoys hurting and humiliating women.

 

destress leads to suicide


Powerless

Falling, deeper, deeper into abyss
Ensnared, trapped, prisoner
Of this life of lies and deceit
Covered by shadows and dark clouds

What is anguish?
Extreme either pain of body or mind. Excruciating distress. It is extreme mental distress causing misery and pain.

WORTHLESS

So STUPID! So DUMB!
You ELEPHANT! You waddle like a DUCK!
You'll never become anything!
You were just a PAWN in my GAME!
Respect! Love! For you! You must be joking!
You're worth NOTHING!

name calling destroys self-esteem
What is name-calling?
It is a verbal abuse. Insulting language to put one's self-worth and self-esteem. The victim suffers from self-confident and mentally the image of one's self is shattered.

infidelity-no respect for your partner

Disloyal

Broken vows to honor, to love
And to forsake all others
Shattered by his selfish
Lustful and sinful
Acts of infidelity, unfaithfulness

What is an infidelity?
Unfaithfulness act to a sexual partner. Infidelity demeans and humiliates the sexual partner. Adultery is a violation of the marriage vows especially to a spouse. It is a breach of moral obligation and trust.


BETRAYAL

Just the right words
At the right time
It was sweet, tender words
The perfect show of deception
And a kiss of betrayal


betrayal - really hurts

What is betrayal?
Violation of a trust. A deliberate misrepresentation of the truth

Isaac Bashevis Singer " when you betray somebody else, you also betray yourself"

hopelessness leads ot self destrution

Hopeless

Can I go on?
Is there any hope of change?
Is there purpose for my life?
Is this all that will ever be?
What does the future hold?
Everything is so dim…

What is hopelessness?
Loss of hope. Despairing is another word that means completely hopeless because unable to think of anything or seek help. A state where nothing good is going to happen and life is a burden. A state of discouragement where ending one's life is only option.
Danger sign - isolation or desolation is the key to the mental state where suicidal thoughts comes evidence.

REFERENCES - MOSBY'S TESTBOOK FOR NURSING ASSISTANTS BY SHEILA A. SORRENTINO,TABER'S CYCLOPEDIC MEDICAL DICTIONARY BY F.A DAVIS, CAGE CANADIAN DICTIONARY, PSYCHOLOGY BY B. B. LAHEY.
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